@Kloi Same experience with me, it's why I never to LTR and haven't for 15 years.
The issue is options, control and power. It's only crazy if you have blue pill expectations of women to feel gratitude and appreciation of who you are. The reality is that it's all in the context of the relationship, it all comes down to relationship dynamics: power, control, options, expectations.
You LTR knows you can't realistically get sex elsewhere. She low-key hopes you won't snap and cheat or dump her. She's insecure, so you probably reassure her. So she's insecure in herself but somewhat secure in the relationship. That's not a formula for passion, attraction or respect.
Comfort and security kill attraction and ultimately respect. Your attractiveness to a woman is proportional to your perceived other options. In a LTR you have no other options.
Your hos and FWBs know you have options and maybe even other women. She knows she has to treat you better, and that you can soft next her in a heartbeat and you'll still be fine, getting it elsewhere.
You're also leading with hot sex, not security.
The crazy thing to my mind is that women complain that men are not committing, while also making commitment a shit deal. So either they are lying and don't want commitment, or they behave like this and it usually works, or the gender with "deep communication skills and interpersonal awareness dynamics expertise" are actually fundamentally retarded.
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv I'm not sure how many refugees ended on your soil since Trump spoke to the South African president. If you observe the numbers from the time the media was covering this heavily you'd realize the number of refugees has dropped significantly. Plus America is the one putting some South African farmers out of work by providing food aid that messing with the country's supply and demand.
@Typo-MAGAshiv the song emerged during the anti-apartheid resistance in South Africa's townships in the late 1980s. It was widely sung and popularized at a mass rally following the murder of South African Communist Party leader Chris Hani. The videos you saw was probably Julius Malema and his political party of the Economic Freedom Fighters, they sang the song during legal battles over whether it constitutes hate speech or protected free political expression. The song became popular because white farmer were abusing and killing their black workers during apartheid. Subsequent the murder of Chris Hani made it even more popular.
Most women only have sex with men they'd want to be in a relationship with (at least most of the time from what I've personally gathered) unless he's a placeholder bf after a particularly rough pump and dump
Sometimes it's "just sex" but they hamster why they want a relationship
Anyway, it's just sad but true, women view sex as a transaction much of the time. World's oldest profession for a reason
I'd wager it's more of 1 than 2.
I've met very few women who genuinely, only want sex. That being said most of these hos are acting and couldn't muster behaving well in an LTR. At least without more guidance than I'm willing to give.
@Typo-MAGAshiv mainstream media is not even that much interested to reveal fraud and other criminal activities and stats of invaders in so called 'white countries'. What happens in Africa is a media-mirage.
@Kloi get them to keep investing, by any means, and there is some pretty weird means you can come up with but you might not be ready to ask for
Most of this is because women fail to notice that the grass is green where they water it and not because it's greener on the other side of the fence
hos and the hos have more respect than the singular woman of two years.
This is an illusion
They treat you better because they are:
1) trying to please you in case you upgrade them
2) all they want is sex, so if you give it to them they are fully satisfied as long as it lasts
If you were to commit to any of those hoes they would drop in treatment. It's an illusion. They treat you well because of circumstance, not principle
